Saturday, 22 December 2012

You are not alone this Christmas.


A time for joy, family and happiness.

Sadly, not everyone experiences this at christmas and for some, this time can be a dark and lonely time or a time when emotions such as depression can be heightened.

You may be one of those people. You may have come across this blog post by chance, or someone may have forwarded it to you to read.

Consider it fate.

I don't want you to feel alone this Christmas.

I don't want you to feel depressed or lonely.

If you feel that you have hit rock bottom and you feel empty inside, If you can see the lights twinkling in other peoples windows, hear the laughter of your neighbours and yet you experience no joy, as if the world is a dark place in which you see no place for yourself any more.

Or if you feel that you are ready to make a change.

I want you to pick up the phone......................


0300 123 3393


08457 90 90 90

Alcoholics Anonymous

0845 769 7555


Info line 08000 50 20 20

London Lesbian and Gay Switchboard

0207 837 7324

0845 767 8000

Preventing young suicide

For people in Northern Ireland

0808 808 8000


0800 1111



0808 2000 247

Eating Disorders Association

0845 634 1414

0808 800 4444

No Panic

0808 808 0545

Cruse Bereavement Care

If you need someone, please call one of these numbers. You are NOT alone over Christmas, there are people out there that care, I care.

I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Love Always

Kellie (Big Fashionista)


  1. Thanks for posting this Kellie. Please can I add Missing People's helpline 116 000? Leaving home can sometimes seem like the only alternative and there are fantastic people there who can talk you through your options. Also, if anyone is away from home, they have lots of ways for you to get a message home.

    Christmas is a hard time for so many people :(

  2. Plus if any bloggers want to post these numbers to their own blogs over Christmas, feel free to cut and paste. Lets spread the word.

  3. I will...we did it last year and will do it again. Xx

  4. Thank you lovely.

    I am most definitely NOT alone this Christmas, but I'm still struggling hard right now.

    Will share.

  5. This is such a lovely idea, well done. <3

    e x

  6. I Have Posted my own adding those numbers to it. Such a great idea for a blog post Kel xx

  7. Can I also add

    Who will help anyone affected by the loss of a child. They've been invaluable to me and my husband.

  8. Important post with important message
    Fair play!
    Happy Christmas and be safe!

  9. This post is the true spirit of Christmas, made me cry. Thank you

  10. What an absolutely wonderful Christmas article. I agree with aka_lolly, the most beautifully true meaning of Christmas possible and you may have helped save someone's life. Here's wishing a Merry Christmas to everyone.

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  12. Sorry - that was my comment just now removed saying what a brilliantly well put together list, I hope it helps at least one person this Christmas. Well done.
    (It was a link to very old blog and can't seem to change it!)

  13. Hello, We have all the same numbers on our blog posts this evening, so we must be doing something right :-) Let's hope that we can reach more people by putting out the same message. @NotAlone365 (on Twitter), using the hashtag #notaloneatxmas is bringing people together who feel lonely, isolated and low particularly at seasonal periods where many others are out celebrating. We welcome new followers and have a welcoming and none - judgemental attitude to anyone who is struggling at this time. Please feel free to join us.

  14. Hey Kel.

    Thanks for all the info.

    Merry Christmas. Love ya.

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